SexTalk

Mia Malan from Bhekisisa, The Mail & Guardian health feature is the special guest. They’ve developed an app to help report rape in Diepsloot. The discussion expands into rape in South Africa, what the stats are, resources, police response, medical response and more.

Cristos Daskalakos, a Biodanza facilitator, joins the team to explore movement, freedom, Eros as life-force and how we can become more sensual in our lives.

The team enters the mysterious world of massage parlours. Are they sexy, are they seedy and sleazy? Who visits massage parlours, who works in them, and what’s the difference between a massage parlour and a brothel? All is revealed!

The team has an open chat about sex, love, relationships, and having fun!

Sex tips, games and adventures for the holidays… some cool games you can play with your phone, how to have sex on the beach without getting sand in places you’ll feel it scratching for weeks afterwards, and more!

Learning to communicate is a skill, and one of the most important aspects of a relationship. We get very little, if any, education for relationships, and so many issues can be solved through effective communication. It’s also a powerful way to build intimacy and connect with your partner. The team shares a live communication workshop and looks at sexual communication as well. This is a master-class in relationship skills!

HIV can be managed as easily as diabetes nowadays, if treated correctly. There are even people now who have begun to fetishise the virus, and will actively go out and gamble with getting infected in a game of sexual Russian roulette. In honour of World AIDS Day on 1 December, the team explores some of the stranger and more unusual topics around HIV and Aids, and share some tips to how to prevent it and protect yourself.

Exploration, erotica, fetishes, strap-on lessons, q&a, what would you like to know, what is kinky sex, how many types of orgasms can a woman have… all questions answered!

It’s ancient stuff with new expressions. Does it connect you to a tribe or make you more of an individual? And can you guess what’s under the clothes of your colleagues?

To paraphrase from the Tao Te Ching, ’The love that can be named is not love.’ Jonti asks how important sex is in a relationship, and have we set relationships up to fail?