Fridays 10:00 – 11:00

Jonti Searll & Tamar


Jonti Searll has been practicing and teaching in the healing world for over 25 years. He has always been drawn to the connection between the mind and body, the body, heart and spirit and began his journey with the study of psychology, moving into Kinesiology, Shiatsu, Sports Therapy, Energy Healing and Personal Growth. His work has always been an expression of a personal inner journey of healing and growth, exploring a vast range of modalities and ideas. Tamar is part of the team of ErosLife and SexTalk. She brings a wonderful sense of humour and lightness to the fields of sexual healing and teaching. Her background in the fields of natural health and touch gives her a unique understanding of human nature and the place of pleasure in our lives. More at


The Dirty Dictionary

We all have questions about sex, and often wonder if it’s just us who want to know about, who think about, want advice on, want to find out about, want to explore… whatever. Each week we’ll answer a question from you right here. Submit your question via email to (you can remain anonymous).


Q: I’ve always considered myself a straight man but lately I’ve had a desire to touch another man’s penis. It’s getting stronger, I don’t understand it, it worries me and I don’t know what to do about it.

A:This requires a big conversation, in essence different aspects of our sexuality can wake up anytime. The labels we put on ourselves limit our pleasure, and learning to become more open, more of who we truly are, sexually and emotionally is part of the healing journey of life and sexuality.


Article of the Week:


All life, every moment, every breath, every touch is an exchange of energy. I open to the world, the world opens to me. I open to life, life opens to me. All of the world, all of life. It’s all part of me, and I am part of it. A Conversation With Life.

Everything we do is a conversation with life. A conversation means that there is more than one of us talking. Most of our conversation with life is pretty one-sided. We talk. We talk to be right, we talk from our ego, we talk from our anger, we talk from our hurt, we talk from our past, we talk from our patterns, we talk from our conditioning. So many different parts of ourselves talk.

Read more here…


Jonti’s Erotic Poetry:



Each kiss is a world

Each meeting of our lips is a moment in time

Of softness and stillness

Of coming home

Of that timeless breath

Between the changing of the tides

And the imperceptible flowing of night into day

Each lick of your tongue on my lips

Draws my entire being

To the exquisite sensation

Of a liquid rose petal

Being drawn across my skin

In a caress of cherished intimacy

Each opening of your mouth

To the reaching of my tongue

Welcomes me into the core of your passion

In a holy lovers dance

To the throbbing beat of our hearts

And shared fire of our breath.



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  • Alli

    Never heard an unsexier voice than that of Jonti Searle. Enough to put me off sex for life!

    • Marlene de Beer

      Hi Alli, you probably have not seen & heard about Jonti’s DVDs Excellently & sensually done; have a look & i am sure you will change your mind. Blessings Marlene

    • callumflemingza

      Go with christ ma’am