Fridays 10:00 – 11:00

Jonti Searll & Tamar


Jonti Searll has been practicing and teaching in the healing world for over 25 years. He has always been drawn to the connection between the mind and body, the body, heart and spirit and began his journey with the study of psychology, moving into Kinesiology, Shiatsu, Sports Therapy, Energy Healing and Personal Growth. His work has always been an expression of a personal inner journey of healing and growth, exploring a vast range of modalities and ideas. Tamar is part of the team of ErosLife and SexTalk. She brings a wonderful sense of humour and lightness to the fields of sexual healing and teaching. Her background in the fields of natural health and touch gives her a unique understanding of human nature and the place of pleasure in our lives. More at


The Dirty Dictionary

We all have questions about sex, and often wonder if it’s just us who want to know about, who think about, want advice on, want to find out about, want to explore… whatever. Each week we’ll answer a question from you right here. Submit your question via email to (you can remain anonymous).


Q: After listening to last week’s show I have to ask how someone so young can know about their sexuality?

A: There’s not a short and simple answer to your question. Firstly there’s a difference between gender and sex, secondly, some people are aware from a very young age that they’re different, something about them is different, hey don’t quite fit in the way they are.


Article of the Week:



Our great disservice to love is that we’ve euphemistically limited the making of love to sex.

Making Love has the most beautiful and the most incredible possibility of opening our hearts to love and to life.

The journey begins in our genitals, the base of our bodies, the connection to earth, the source of the fire.

And sadly for most of us, that’s where it stays in our chase for orgasm.

So let the orgasm be the beginning.

And let the fire grow from a spark to a flame to an inferno.

And know that this is the fire of love.

And let it burn through you and let it burn away all that is not love.

And let it show you all within you that stops you loving.

And let your healing be the learning of love.

And in time your life will be the making of love, and love will make you.

In her image, love will make you.


Read more here…


Jonti’s Erotic Poetry:



Each kiss is a world

Each meeting of our lips is a moment in time

Of softness and stillness

Of coming home

Of that timeless breath

Between the changing of the tides

And the imperceptible flowing of night into day

Each lick of your tongue on my lips

Draws my entire being

To the exquisite sensation

Of a liquid rose petal

Being drawn across my skin

In a caress of cherished intimacy

Each opening of your mouth

To the reaching of my tongue

Welcomes me into the core of your passion

In a holy lovers dance

To the throbbing beat of our hearts

And shared fire of our breath.



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  • Alli

    Never heard an unsexier voice than that of Jonti Searle. Enough to put me off sex for life!

    • Marlene de Beer

      Hi Alli, you probably have not seen & heard about Jonti’s DVDs Excellently & sensually done; have a look & i am sure you will change your mind. Blessings Marlene

    • callumflemingza

      Go with christ ma’am