Fridays 10:00 – 11:00

Jonti Searll & Tamar


Jonti Searll has been practicing and teaching in the healing world for over 25 years. He has always been drawn to the connection between the mind and body, the body, heart and spirit and began his journey with the study of psychology, moving into Kinesiology, Shiatsu, Sports Therapy, Energy Healing and Personal Growth. His work has always been an expression of a personal inner journey of healing and growth, exploring a vast range of modalities and ideas. Tamar is part of the team of ErosLife and SexTalk. She brings a wonderful sense of humour and lightness to the fields of sexual healing and teaching. Her background in the fields of natural health and touch gives her a unique understanding of human nature and the place of pleasure in our lives. More at


The Dirty Dictionary

We all have questions about sex, and often wonder if it’s just us who want to know about, who think about, want advice on, want to find out about, want to explore… whatever. Each week we’ll answer a question from you right here. Submit your question via email to (you can remain anonymous).


Q: Is it normal for a woman not to touch herself?

A: Being sexual and sensual is a choice. If you’re not pleasuring yourself from a place of guilt, shame, disconnect or shut-down of your sexuality then I’d have to say it’s not normal.




In March we’re going up to Magical Southern Mozambique for our 1st retreat of the year, YOUR SEXUAL STORY.
We invite you to join us for a talk about the retreat, about swimming with wild dolphins, about Tartaruga, the resort we’re staying at and about Ponto Malongane.
And there’s more…
Jonti will share 2 processes about Your Sexual Story and Courtney will do a mini Sound Journey!
Booking is essential,,
Please bring a yoga mat, pillow and blanket.
Date: Mon 13 Feb
Venue: Indie Yoga, Quartz Rd, Witkoppen, Johannesburg.
Time: 7:30pm.




Article of the Week:



Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we can share with a partner, in fact there are times when kissing is more intimate than sex. Kissing brings us closer together than anything. Because kissing is so intimate, it also expresses our emotional state.

Kissing is the sharing of our essence. In the exchange of fluids and breathe we mix ourselves with our lovers.

Read more here…


Jonti’s Erotic Poetry:



You are my midnight addiction

You are the craving that calls me through the night

You scratch the surface of my soul

Your fire burns into me


Scorching my heart

Enflaming the very essence of my being

And it grows, my desire for you

Fills me, body, heart and soul

Until there is no thought, no feeling

That is not you

Until, in the quiet of the night

The passion roars within me

And I must, I must feast on you

I must drink the nectar of your arousal

I must lap at the sacred spring

Till you spasm in ripples of pleasure

And the, then

Throbbing, engorged

I mount the sacred altar of your body

That has enslaved me

For in your moans and screams

In my growls and roars

On our sweat slick flesh

Through eyes that see only the truth of the secret self

Mouths that devour, kiss and bite

And taste the flavour of passion

Am I fulfilled, spent

Panting, gasping

The craving that has consumed me slowly abates

Leaves me on dawn’s peaceful beach

And I know, I know

That in the dark of night

You reach for me, summon me

My midnight addiction.



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  • Alli

    Never heard an unsexier voice than that of Jonti Searle. Enough to put me off sex for life!

    • Marlene de Beer

      Hi Alli, you probably have not seen & heard about Jonti’s DVDs Excellently & sensually done; have a look & i am sure you will change your mind. Blessings Marlene

    • callumflemingza

      Go with christ ma’am